Put on your boxing gloves because today the fight begins. You’re going to land the knock-out punch against dating rejection. You’ve been there — I’ve been there. REJECTION HURTS.


The pain is like an overwhelming body slam knocking out our breath twisting its fangs unmercifully gorging out your heart.


The ensuing emotional torment is agony like you’ve never known before. It’s an internal pain that can linger for years leaving our soul in shambles.


You just can’t stop the unrelenting heartache. And despairingly, you don’t know how to cope with this cloud of heaviness in your soul. Please, won’t it just go away? …


The reason lost love is so devastating is that it often occurs when you’ve poured out every drop of love you have toward the man you thought loved you. The aftermath leaves you

disoriented, confused, angry, even vengeful in seeking retribution. “You hurt me, I’ll find a way to hurt you.” Oh, what a sad state of mind that is. Even worse, the despair is so all-consuming, you contemplate ending it all …

Woman in heartache pain


Thankfully, sanity prevails.  Instead, you just cry yourself to sleep night after night after being cheated on, or left behind for another woman, or never called again after a night of great sex? It happens to too many women too often … It’s time to stop allowing this disruptive, demeaning behavior from cowering us into lowering our self-esteem and questioning our worthiness to receive the wholehearted love we deserve.



When all is said and done, what is it women really want? Some say, independence, others shout, fulfilling careers, others declare, all the rights open to men. etc. Uhmm.  To each her own. Ultimately, though, we all NEED love.


Most humans don’t exceed to their highest level of living without love.  A partner. Perhaps children. A shared complementary experience of growth with another human who sees the world as we do.  And opens up new horizons to explore other worlds together. A partner to grow old with …  A true companion in happy marriage.


Oh, if only love were that easy to find.  Instead many of us get stuck on stupid and end up setting ourselves up to be rejected. (More on this below).





Men who

*Use and abuse with no intention of building a lasting relationship.

*Engage only in one-night stands

*Unscrupulous men who prey on lonely women for monetary gain.

*Want to live together at your expense

*Devoid of moral or ethical character


We’ve all read heartbreaking stories about men who hide behind their computers and contact lonely women with money with words promising adoration and love. These culprits are often blind calls from overseas who scour single sites to find unsuspecting victims.


Over time they win the woman’s trust, then go for the kill asking for loans to help them relocate to unite with the target woman.  Then, ruthlessly bilk them out of thousands of dollars leaving them high and dry financially and devastated emotionally. Scam. Scam.


Or think of the tragic stories of women fooled, then rejected by prison inmates.  Thousands of women have got caught up in this web of deceit. Posted under comments, here is one disheartening story.


Toni’s Prison Love of Mind Manipulation 


“I could have writren this blog myself! I did not know my husband before prison his aunt asked me to write to encourage him as he accepted Christ. He served a five-year sentence. We fell in love (I thought) through letters and sharing our hearts. The truth is he needed someone on the outside. I bought him books for encouragement, sent money and paid for phone calls that I answered at 6:30 am even on my days off and 6:30 pm every day and at times stood in the rain and snow to hear his voice. God forbid I missed his call. I drove over 7 hours a visit–400 + miles round trip to visit over 65+ times in 4 years.


I ran ALL his errands and after marrying him 1-1/2 I paid his attorney fees. He barked the orders and I completed them. He told me nothing would separate us and how much he loved me that he couldn’t understand how God could love me more.  We Wrote letters. I prepared our home and bought him a closet full of clothes and coats- boots and shoes and jeans and shorts underwear and socks and much more. Name it – he had it. I also bought a house. I even wrote his release plan to parole board and rallied support on the outside I did it ALL. For five years. In the end he beat me, used my up spirit, mind and body … and threw me away like a rag (read full comment under the Prison Manipulation post).


How did you feel after reading Toni’s story? Sadly her story isn’t unique, it happens thousands of times to thousands of women. Rejection shatters lives.




When I was young (Grandma-D) I was dropped like a hot potato. It was shocking because Harry and I seemed like the perfect couple. He wined and dined me for 3 months. Loving me up morning ’till night. My head swirled with dreams of my wedding day. My entire family fell in love with him. I was sure he was the in serious thoughtone … until he disappeared. Left town. Gone. After some time I read about a man like him in a Cosmopolitan article entitled, “The 90-Day Man.”


I learned that after 90 days this man had saturated himself with everything I had to give–and was ready to move on to another 90-day adventure with another woman. Can you understand how devastated I was … for years!  Every day I asked, “How could I have prevented this rejection”?


What’s your story? How has rejection affected you? I bet you could tell a tale or two…


How will your love life change if you don’t do anything about it?  It won’t. Your life will continue to look like situations these pictures depict. You’ll remain despondent unable to identify what to fix. Unable to assuage anxiety headaches. Unable to find the path to relationship happiness… because you don’t know where to start, nor how to do it.


Woman in heartache pain


Again, I kept repeating in my head, “how could I have prevented this”?  I read self-help books by the dozens and did lots of research on how men think. I eventually found a system that I wrote about and put into a book. As a result, you’re going to learn about a viable system to prevent dating rejection.


After reading and applying its principles, rarely will you ever again suffer the hurt and humiliation of getting dumped after giving all your love.


Again, I feel your pain. I’ve been there, done that. That’s why I am offering you this Six-Step Solution. You’re going to learn how to protect yourself against relationship rejection by understanding the essentials of 1) self-love first, 2) the psyche of how men pursue, and 3) the inestimable skill of using time as your best ally. (Time is the secret power play few use) Keep reading to learn more.


When you combine these three elements by implementing the following Six Powerful Dating Skills, then WHAM! That will give you the knock-out punch training you need to boldly stand up for yourself to stop dating rejection in its tracks before it demoralizes you, and/or how to regain your self-esteem if you’ve already been victimized. 


This system was my savior. It pulled me out of the depths of despair. I was “somebody” worthwhile to love and be loved. More importantly, I developed a game plan.  A game plan means you have the dating skills to know what you’re doing, why you’re doing it and how to do it step-by-step that “opens his heart” causing him to bond with you like no other woman can. These steps prompt FRIENDSHIP first as the ultimate bonding tool.


The Six Dating Skills Journey from Selection, through Dating into Marriage


 One: First date(s) are all about Getting to know one another in a POSITIVE way. Make sure your conversation is all POSITIVE. No negative talk at all. And, please don’t lay bare your deepest, darkest secrets and problems. Make him feel happy to be around you. If he’s interested he will let you know. If you’re interested you will accept his attention.


Two: Testing time. Men have a difficult time being exclusive. After dating a while, he may pull away trying to decide if you’re the one he can make happy. Resist the urge to do anything that resembles chasing him during this period. If he doesn’t call, this means (at least at this time) that he decided not to pursue further and you have to move on. Learn how to resist.


Three: Going steady. You each decide not to see anyone else and open up a little to see if you each can get what you need from the other. It’s time to investigate what the two of you are made of, again in a positive sense. Each partner must experience the best the other has to offer. At this point, you are creating a history of dates where he has succeeded and you feel supported. Be your best self and bring out your partner’s best.  This is a definite skill; learn how to do it.photo6


Four: Cultivate verbal intimacy. Now it’s time to start communicating on the deepest level. This communication probes to assess compatibility on how to handle differences, manage disagreements; it scrutinizes likes, dislikes, and habits, thinking on politics, religion, health, future parenting, financial matters, career expectation, housework, conflict resolution, anger, jealousy, insecurities, neediness and so forth.

Once these issues are resolved, usually, couples have established genuine love and may choose to engage in physical sex. Remember, Sex too soon can sink your budding romance before he gets to know the real you as a woman to be valued and prized. (That takes time). Be careful. 


Five: Commitment. There is only one time to think about it – BEFORE you make it. With your heart and mind, you pledge unconditional love. To be there for each other in good and bad times. To weather all storms together. To be loyal and faithful. To honor and respect. To love each other for a lifetime. If you’re not ready to make that kind of vow–you’re not ready for marriage.

SixEngagement. At this point, it is time to practice the two most important skills of staying married: the ability to apologize and to forgive. The perfect time to practice giving apologies and finding forgiveness is during the engagement. Learn how to do that!

Another benefit of the engagement period is to let passionate love “settle” into ordinary everyday love with your best friend and lover in a far deeper kind of love that will stand the test of time.




I decided to present the material in fiction form as a love story rather than ordinary text. That’s much more interesting, don’t you think?  The story centers on Julie Shannon who you’ll meet and watch fall in and out of love and endure the trials and tribulations of love gone awry … until she “gets it” through learning how to date with purpose and direction leading to the altar. By following her example you learn how to dodge rejection and fight for the love life you desire.


Julie dates five different men before she gets it right. Finally, she meets Dave Marlin, but before plunging in, she learns how to assess the “inner” man by using “time” as her best ally. Even so, she has neglected something vital and Dave is hedging on commitment. Learn how she uses a time-tested strategy to gain commitment and why it works most of the time–IF he loves you ENOUGH. …Learn how you determine what “enough” means.  And how your man should manifest this “enough” love toward you.

Let’s meet the six guys Julie dates and what she learns from each:

Notice from this excerpt, how devastating that hedge (which was actually marriage rejection) was to Julie:


Their relationship was “ideal.” In her eyes, near perfection. Dave was the love of her life. So, after two years, Julie was ready for marriage. The time seemed perfect to establish a home and start their own family. Dave seemed to want that, too.


One summer day during an outing with the kids from the shelter, Julie said, “They’re so adorable. Wonder what ours will look like?  I know,” she teased, “our son will be a freckled blond and as funny as Jay Leno, or maybe tall and handsome as James Bond. And our daughter, oh, she’ll be as beautiful as Angelina Jolie with the voice of Celine Dion.”  Smiling, she snuggled close, her eyes radiating happiness, and looked up at Dave.


“What’s the hurry?” he snapped. “We’re perfect just the way we are.”


Julie’s heart fainted, stunned by his surprising remark and cutting tone. Opening her mouth, she tried to speak, but the words refused to come. She stared at him in disbelief. Blood drained from her face. She sat dazed. Shocked and confused, she turned away.


Dave immediately changed his tone and took her hand in his. “Sure,” he said, gently caressing trying to console. “One day we will marry. It’s just that marriage is such a life-altering commitment. One that I’m not sure I’m ready for. But I do love you. And when I marry, it will be you,” he assured her.


Julie could only nod. In an instant, a grotesque masquerade had materialized clouding her perfect world obscuring its definition, darkening its future, threatening its happiness. She heard Dave’s words trailing off in the distance . . . far, far away as she felt her soul drifting into a trance escaping into another world. A world where her prince loved her. Where she was resplendent in bridal lace and pearls. Where music romanced the air and champagne flowed. Where well-wishers kissed the bride. Not here. Not witnessing this hedging. Not looking at this impostor who denied their marriage.


Continuing the afternoon was impossible. Making excuses, she left early. She had to get away. Had to regain composure. Had to think. Once home, she collapsed on the bed, her head throbbing at being so unprepared for, and utterly devastated by this surprising turn of events. This rejection!


As a consequence of Dave’s reaction, Julie made brave bold moves that challenged Dave’s stance on marriage. The strategy she used took all the courage in every beat of her heart, in every pulse of her body to pull off. But she did it. Learn what she did, how and why it worked.


Man offering engagement ring


Dave showed up with ring in hand.








 Who this book is NOT for — the woman who:


photo2Who this workbook IS for — the woman who:


Now the only question to ask is…


“Do I believe enough in myself to invest in an education that will help me identify my best match then help me develop my relationship into the lifetime love that I deserve?  Do I want to be a happy bride? “Do I want to be loved?” Do I want to share my life with a man I love? Of course, you do! Don’t wait another minute to start. Click here!


Groom Looking At Bride With Love

“To love the one who loves you–To admire the one who admires you–In a word, To be the idol of one’s idol–Is exceeding the limit of human joy–It is stealing fire from heaven.”Delphine de Girardin

P. S. You need to make the right decision for you, but you must make that decision right NOW and not waste another minute running from one no-win relationship to the next — going from man to man without winning commitment. No more broken hearts; no more love triangles; no more cheating; no more empty promises; no more lies; no more emotional distress. No more emptiness. AND NO MORE REJECTION. …Instead, learn how to date to marry!

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