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Commitment Phobic Men: What’s the FEAR?

COMMITMENT PHOBIC FEAR FEAR! Inside their heads when men ponder the word commitment they hear—responsibility, permanence, loss of freedom. Yikes! I can’t do this. I’m not ready for this. I’ll take too much work. FEAR! The positive side of this thinking, if there is any, is that men seem to understand the challenges involved in […]

Dating: Boldly Protect Yourself from Rejection

PROTECT YOURSELF FROM REJECTION Many of us have been there—the cold, hard pain of rejection. It’s soul-stabbing suffering. It’s humiliating. It’s cruel. Its insufferable sting sears the heart. And you pray to never allow this to happen to you again. But how can you assure it won’t? We’ll consider one way in this post. It’s […]

Why One-Way Love Sucks Like a Poison Pill

SAY, “NO’ TO ONE-WAY LOVE You’ve loved him from the depths of your heart. You’ve given him love unconditionally. You’ve bared your vulnerabilities like the open sea. You’ve held him in your arms to suckle your breasts like bees gathering honey—and then he’s gone. Just like that. The relationship failed because he didn’t love you […]

How Do You Get a Guy to Marry You?

WILL HE MARRY ME? Just how do you get a guy to marry you I would wager is the $64,000 question of the year. Unfortunately, many “love specialists” teach it’s about enticing a guy with sexiness, beautiful hair, slim body, big boobs, fashionable clothes. Got news for you … that ain’t it. Those who fall […]

Sexual Agency vs Sexual-Self-Respect—Winner?

WHAT IS SEXUAL AGENCY? Sexual Agency boasts a woman’s right to screw around without guilt or recriminations. But NOT without emotional consequences. We’re talking ROBBERY. Initially, I too, jumped on that bandwagon and rode those wild horses humping hotly without constraints.   Why not! After all, as an expression of modern feminism, I was free […]

Relationships Defined Part V

When you give more than you’re getting, or give your all before you receive what you want, you’re setting yourself to be disappointed.  Learn to receive, and not sabotage yourself by refusing to see this is what men want.  They want to give to you; make it easy for him.   Instead of just being […]

Relationships Defined Part IV

“Remember, there are many more women than eligible men. You have to set yourself up as the gold medal–as someone worth pursuing. Establish your value–not your sex. Sex he can get anywhere … your value is priceless.” Julie turned away, her eyes filled with tears. There was nothing left to say.   With these words, […]

Relationships Defined Part III

Dr. Braun rose from her seat and walked over to the window. Her mind sought words that would both educate and instruct without belittling Julie to keep her self-esteem intact.   “Let’s talk about human nature. About men and the challenge,” she said. “Men love a challenge. Men love sex. And when a man meets […]

Relationships Defined – Part II

Julie is fraught with anxiety and confusion trying to understand why Rick has rejected her. She thought she knew the rules–how love and relationships grow–how relationships are defined. Now, she seeks counsel from the relationship counselor who introduced her to the Six-Step-Dating strategy. Let’s listen in on the discussion.   “Dr. Braun,” Julie said, her […]

Relationships Defined – Part I

In the next few posts we’ll examine whether or not our protagonist, Julie, permitted a long enough time-span to ensue between she and Rick to allow love to develop and grow before she pledged her heart. Did she really define the meaning of relationships? Below is a sneak peek inside the “How-to-Date-to-Marry” Workbook.   It […]

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